Ahhh, then you show extremely good taste in choosing women. -grin-

Seriously, read my article on communication. Stock answer, but true in every way. Talk about everything, and don't be afraid to talk about anything. The other thing, and my absolute favorite: Accept, don't expect. If you accept and cherish whatever she has to give, then you will never be disappointed. If you expect a kiss and she gives you a smile, cherish the smile for its beauty and give HER a kiss instead of being disappointed over losing something you never had.