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How do I meet sincere people?
Krista,
I'm your normal every day kinda guy, but I find myself wanting to experiment much more with this side of my sexuality. I've purchased several books from your site on this lifestyle, and have purchased several items to get me started.
I'm completely straight, and would like to find a woman who is also wanting to explore this side of her self. I joined adult friend finder, but its a total joke. No one is serious about really getting together. I live in Virginia near Newport News. Is there a legitimate point of contact for me to get in touch with, and to meet woman who are interested in this kind of lifestyle in my immediate area. Any help you could provide would be greatly appreciated.
Thank you for your time, and all of the great products and support.
Sincerely,
Romance.
Dear Romance,
Thanks for the kind words about my site. Every little bit is noticed and appreciated.
Meeting someone real: The best way to meet people in this lifestyle is to get involved in it. Find the groups, join them, volunteer for some of the shit detail that goes along with every group, and get yourself noticed with your sincerity. Sometimes people don't believe me, but this is my 'stock answer' and I stand by it every time. A lot of people get into the lifestyle and hide behind the vast emptiness of the internet. To stand out, you must become REAL to other people, otherwise, you are simply an invisible hand typing messages that may, or may not be true. Online, people cannot look into your eyes and see the soul behind them. They cannot get to know you slowly, and notice how you care about and interract with others. The biggest thing: Don't prejudge, lest you be judged. DOn't focus on the young, slim perfect thing that everybody else is chasing. Get beyond the physical and talk to anyone and everyone. You never know, your ideal woman may be 300 pounds and too shy to speak to anyone because nobody has ever looked at her as a human. Maybe she'll shed the weight and blossom just because you noticed her. While a bit farfetched sounding, this has a ring of truth to it. If you see people's hearts, they will see yours, and you will find what you seek. Even if it is through a service like Adult Friend Finder. It is not the -service- that is responsible for finding your love, it is YOU. While some listings may be jokes, you lump all members into one category in your letter. Do you do this in your life and interractions with others? Is my story above now so farfetched? There are thousands of people out there that are looking for the same thing, you simply have to be determined to make them find YOU by putting the real you out there and accepting the people you meet for whatever they have to give. Accept and appreciate whatever it is, and you'll find that your expectations may have been the block in your finding a partner, just as it looks like you expected a dating service to find you the perfect partner. One of my favorite sayings in life and my personal mantra: Accept, don't expect.
PS... I am not employed by, related to, involved with in any way positive or negative, the service mentioned in this letter.
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