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Experience? Maybe something else
I have finally found a girl who I want to spend the rest of my life with.
I have always been interested in alternative sex, but with very minimal expierence.
She on the other hand seems to have been in many situations beyond the norm hands on and years
in the bdsm chat sites. I want advice as to what or how I should be with her, talking seems to end up
in fighting and hard feelings. So what do I do?
My concern with this question is not the obvious question, but the fighting and hard feelings. On the surface, the question is about experience, but I'm going to take a plunge here and tell you what I see... A problem with insecurity, possibly jealousy, and communication. For a relationship to last, it MUST have open communication. If, as you say, the communication always ends up with hard feelings, there is something that is not being addressed. In this case, it looks to me like a possible insecurity caused by her experience, or, possibly, high or unrealistic expectations of you that go beyond your experience or comfort zone. Before you marry her, learn to communicate with her. Please, seek professional counseling.
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