Hello Krista,
I have a question about a kissing problem. My girlfriend says I give really wet kisses, even if it's just a peck on the lips. She says she just doesn't like it when it's all "wet and slobbery." Sometimes I'll give non-wet kisses but when I do it's a miracle. So I was just wondering is there anything I can do to make my mouth drier or something? I do drink a lot of water if that has anything to do with it? or maybe i'm just a big slobber freak! :( But in any case we'll be very thankful for any advice! :)
Wet K-er
Dear Wet K-er,
I remember a time that a woman was going down on me and it was the absolute worst experience in my life. She had a horribly dry mouth and the resulting feeling was indescribably yucky. I wish I had known then what I know now... I would have fed her sour candy and worked harder to ger her juices flowing!
Aside from carrying a handkerchief and wiping your mouth every time you prepare to kiss her, no, I really don't think there is much you can do about this. My question is: Would you really want to? I don't see this as your problem so much as your girlfriend's problem. If your mouth is really that much wetter than anybody else's mouth and you do not run around drooling, then I simply cannot see what it hurts! In fact, I see that as extra lube when you go down on her (have a towel handy!), and something to make passionate kisses frictionless. Wet kisses, in my opinion, are good. A partner that could not stand my kisses, however, I might have more serious questions about.