OK, you have the finger in the treasure Chest, now what do you do? If you and she desire that you find the G-spot, then the first thing you need to do is know where it is. The simplest answer I can give is: Directly behind the clit. It can vary in position, but believe me, it IS THERE! To help you to find it: Place the woman on her back (sometimes a pillow under the butt helps). Gently insert a CLEAN, well trimmed finger and curve the finger upward. You may feel a bump somewhat like a pasta shell. Gently rub this area with your finger. Do not push fingertip forcefully against it, as it can be very painful. Experiment with different pressures and directions of rubbing. If you just cannot seem to reach it, there are toys that have special curves to them specifically for stimulating this area.