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Foreplay
No, it does not consist of simply begging. A quick lick on the nipple won't quite do it, either! Foreplay is a very important part of lovemaking for both parties. It stimulates natural lubrication for the female, and gets the mind out of the places it does not belong (work, kids, business, money, etc. talk about major turn-offs!) for both parties, thereby making a much more enjoyable encounter. Take some time to get to know your partner's body, and leave ego outside the bedroom door!!! The bed is normally too small for people trying to have fun and a big ego. Throw away the preconceived notions of what you THINK pleases your partner and ask them. Then, put it into action! Listen with your heart, and don't so things just because that's the way you've always done them. You may be surprised to find that your partner hates that certain thing that you do that you think turns them on. It is up to you to find out, and implement the things they like, and stop the things they hate. At the very least, if the thing they hate is something that is a huge turn-on for you, negotiate to do it for a little while, in return for something they particularly like. Trying not to sound like a sales pitch here, but there are many things in the store that are great for foreplay.
My recommendations:
A generous helping of your time
A Romantic Game
Candlelight
Massage oils and Pleasure Mitts
Feather Ticklers
Bathing together
Honey Dust
Never, ever underestimate the power of erotic massage and touch. It stimulates the nerve endings, awakens the senses, and helps to prepare body and mind for and is a very large part of lovemaking. I have actually received massages that made me feel as if I'd had an orgasm! If you have never experienced this, I highly recommend it. Take your time, the person you love is worth it!
Watching the interactions of couples that come into my store and are able to communicate with each other, I have come to the conclusion that talking IS foreplay. Probably the best and most intense kind of foreplay! I can watch the body language of the couple and know that when they leave the store, they are going home to try out their new toys. I can see the flush in the faces, can see that they are standing closer to each other than when they arrived, I can see the very subtle signs of excitement between people that are excited about being with each other. From my point of view, this excitement and joy of exploration is the reason I opened the store to begin with. Yes, I'll admit, I get a vicarious thrill and excitement of my own out of helping to open up this excitement for people, but hey, that's my kink, and I'm proud of it. I guess it comes with caring.
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