Hi, I just need some advice on how to handle a situation. I am married with 2 kids and my husband is very open minded- he would like me to have an affair- for me it's not that easy. I have met a man through work that I find I am extremly attracted to- I believe it might be the same with him he has flirted with me. I don't see him everyday- and really have no idea if he is just as attracted to me. I can't stop thinking about him- It is a real turn on for my husband- and I really don't know what to do about my feelings if I should do anything at all. Thanks
While it may be a turn-on for your husband, you must follow your heart with what you think is right. I've seen a lot of couples start having trouble because the male wants the female to do something she doesn't want to do, such as swinging. If all parties are in agreement, then by all means, have fun! My hesitation here is the guy at work. Bad move! Please, DO NOT fool around with a person you work with!! This could lead to you losing your job or worse. Been there, done that, got the boot. This is a personal observation here, but it seems like it is always the woman in the situation that gets fired when these things are found out...
